Laney & Owen's First Flight

On Wednesday, October 1st, Brad hitched a trailer to his Jeep and hopped in the car with Grandpa Gary and Cash to drive to Virginia to begin a new season with the Norfolk Admirals. On Friday, October 3rd, I was booked on flights from Madison --> Detroit, 40 minute layover (yikes! that's not a lot of time), Detroit --> Norfolk with the kids. Their first flights! Saint Kristi volunteered to fly with me and help with Laney, since I would be holding Owen throughout each flight.

We just arrived at the airport!

We arrived at the airport and everything was going smoothly until we got to security. As soon as we lugged the double stroller, carseat, carry-on bags and both kids through security, they both started screaming. Owen was hungry and needed a diaper change, and it was already 30 mins past Laney's nap time. Uh oh. We changed Owen's diaper and decided I would sit at an empty gate to feed Owen, and Kristi would take Laney for a scenic stroll around the airport. As we pushed the screaming babies past the gate we were flying out of, filled with the passengers that would be on our flight, everyone just stared at us. Kristi and I kept strolling past our gate, giggling about what a spectacle we were and that everyone at our gate was probably thinking "Thank goodness they aren't on OUR flight"(Ha! Joke's on you people! See you at boarding time!).

I sat with Owen and nursed him while I was signing lease documents on my phone. It had been a crazy week filled with preparations for the sudden move to VA, and I was still taking care of last-minute work. Kristi was strolling a very overtired Laney around and I could hear her screaming from at least 10 gates away. At least Owen had settled down! 1 down, 1 to go. Kristi came back and notified me that our flight was going to be arriving late in Detroit. Originally, we only had a 40 minute layover, so that meant we had no time to waste between flights…with two babies, carry-ons, a stroller, and a carseat. Kristi immediately ordered a wheelchair to pick me up at the gate in Detroit, hoping they would hold the flight from Detroit --> Norfolk for the wheelchair-bound woman with 2 babies.

At boarding time, we strolled back to our gate and Laney was still crying. People at our gate looked at us, a bit shocked that these two babies were indeed on their flight. We dropped off the stroller and carseat on the jetway and everyone that had already boarded stared at us, also now realizing that these two babies were on their flight. Kristi and Laney had the aisle and window seat, and I sat in the window seat directly behind them with Owen on my lap. Laney had calmed down by this point, excited to explore her seat and look out the window. We brought a bunch of new toys for her, plenty of snacks, and a sippy cup filled with cold water for her to sip while we took off and landed. Owen nursed and slept the ENTIRE flight. Laney was an overtired goofball, squealing over her new toys, looking at the other passengers over the top of her seat, and smiling and waving at everyone. The first flight went SO well! Both kids did a fantastic job!

Excited for her first flight!

 Full tummy and sound asleep

Stuffing her mouth with snacks

She stores snacks in her cheeks like a chipmunk preparing for hibernation. Whatever keeps her happy!

After our first flight landed, we only had 20 minutes to get to the next flight. Kristi stood up out of her seat and realized that all of the water Laney drank went straight through her, out of her over-saturated diaper, and onto Kristi's jeans. Her leg and Laney's pants were soaked, but we didn't have enough time to worry about that. Kristi and Laney quickly got off the plane, ran to the gate attendant, and asked her to call the attendant for our next flight to have them hold the plane for us. I waited with Owen while the stroller and carseat were brought to the jetway and then hopped on the wheelchair Kristi ordered for me. We all sped off to the next gate and we made it! Just in time!

On our second flight, my original seat was 4 rows behind Kristi and Laney, so I sat in the empty seat across the aisle from them, hoping the passenger assigned to that seat would switch with me so I could be close to Laney. That passenger arrived and I tried explaining my situation to her. She just stared at me, so I repeated myself. She kept staring at me. I tried explaining one more time and then she made it very clear that she was deaf and didn't understand a word I was saying. What are the odds?? At that point, I just gave up and went to my seat. I could hear Laney starting to get very fussy again. She missed her first nap of the day, and this was about the time when she would be starting her second nap of the day. She was exhausted! Kristi quickly changed her soaked diaper and pants in her seat (whatever works!) and Owen nursed and fell asleep again. I could hear Laney screaming and I could see the people sitting around her, giving each other worried looks. She ended up throwing a few fits throughout the flight. It wasn't too bad, considering how overtired she was, but I think that's all due to Kristi's amazing job distracting her and comforting her! As soon as the pilot announced we would be landing in 25 minutes, Laney fell asleep. Go figure. We landed, Owen woke up from his lengthy snooze with a smile on his face, and I could hear Laney cry at the top of her lungs as soon as she was woken up. Poor thing. At least we were there… Virginia Beach, here we come! Home sweet home for the next 7 months.

15 Months Old // 2 Months Old

Laney had her 15 month checkup, and she's 32" tall (90%), 20 lb 3 oz (33%), and her head is a solid 47.6 cm (92%). She still needs assistance to walk because she's constantly walking on her tip toes and doesn't have very good balance. We've started making her wear shoes with hard soles to make it more difficult for her to stand on her tip toes, and I think it's helping a little bit. At this point, I think she could walk if she realized she could balance much better with flat feet. The tip-toeing has become a habit for her. Noni and I joke that she must be preparing to walk in stilettos.

She has started using sign language to communicate, which has been so helpful! She can sign "all done," "more," and "eat." When she's in her high chair and starts to whine, I'm able to ask her if she wants "more" or if she's "all done." I think both of us are thrilled that she can finally tell me what she's thinking! She's very quick at picking up the signs, too. I only had to show her the signs once or twice, and she started using them right away.

Laney has also started dancing! She loves the song "Barbara Ann" by the Beach Boys, and whenever we turn it on, she gets down on the floor on her knees and bounces up and down with her hands in the air.

Owen had his 2 month checkup, and he's 24.25" (93%), 12 lb 13 oz (61%), and his head is 40.6 cm (88%). He has gained 4.5 lbs and grew 3 inches in 7 weeks! He has outgrown his bassinet - he's way too long for it. I lay him down so his head has about 1" of clearance from the top of the bassinet, but his feet touch the bottom. Big boy! He just started sleeping unswaddled. I wrap him up as tightly as I can, and he somehow forces his arms out every time. He loves sleeping with his arms above his head, just like his big sister does. Sometimes he wakes himself up when his arms hit the side of the bassinet, but usually he sleeps quite well.

He loves baths! Laying him in warm water and covering his tummy with a warm wet washcloth, he sits and stares at me with a huge smile across his face.

Owen just discovered his hands and his voice. He loves putting his hands in his mouth, and sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night to the sound of him loudly and sloppily sucking on his fingers. When I'm snuggling with him and talking to him, he likes to talk back with a gentle "ooh" or "ahh."

2 Months Old!

Laney's first carousel ride at the zoo with Noni and Grandpa

Skype date with papa

Snuggling with Grandma Cathy

Hanging out with Grandpa Jeff. He has clearly grown out of his 0-3 month sleepers.

Such a good napper!

Laney discovered the tupperware cabinet

 Kisses for her little brother! He's not amused.

Loving the giraffes with Grandma Cathy and Great Aunt Liz

14.5 Months Old // 6 Weeks Old

Laney just started giving kisses and it is quite adorable! She leans in and sort of puckers up, then plants a sweet little wet kiss right on you. Before bed is a prime time to score one, right after singing Twinkle Twinkle to her in the rocking chair. She's also working on blowing kisses. Right now, it mainly consists of her covering her mouth with her hand. She hasn't figured out how to blow the kiss yet.

Every time Laney sees, hears, or thinks about her little brother, she says his name: "Ohhhhhhh." She isn't saying the "-wen" part yet, but she's very good at saying "Ohhhh." She has fallen in love with her little baby brother, and she constantly gives him gentle snuggles by resting her head against him (that's her way of cuddling). She also loves to hold his hand, and she giggles and squeals whenever he makes noises. It melts my heart to see our little girl bond with her baby brother! She's such a sweet, loving big sister, and we can already tell that she's going to take great care of him as they grow up together.

Attempting to hold his hand

Giving him snuggles

She has started standing on her own. She still holds onto furniture when she walks, but she often lets go to stand up by herself. She can stand for quite awhile. Sometimes she squats halfway down, about to sit, but changes her mind and then stands back up all the way. 

Standing up!

Doing a squat

Little Owen has been smiling so much more! He's a darling little charmer. He has a very easy-going personality, and as long as he's fed, he's happy, relaxed, and full of smiles.

He's been very good about being left alone while he's awake. I can lay him on his play mat, and he'll look around and talk to himself for a long time - sometimes until he falls asleep. He's such a sweet, patient boy!

At Owen's 2 week check-up, I asked the pediatrician about drinking coffee while nursing. I haven't had coffee since before we found out I was pregnant with Owen, and I've missed it so much! She said one cup of coffee would be fine and shouldn't have an effect on him - music to my ears! I've been enjoying it so much that one cup of coffee slowly turned into two cups…then it turned into two cups in the morning and another in the afternoon…and before I knew it, Owen wasn't napping at all during the day and was wide awake at night. Two days of little to no sleep, and I realized it was time to cut back and let the poor boy rest! Whoops! It took a day or two for it to leave his system, and then he slept like a champ. Lesson learned.

Right now, Owen is still eating every 2-3 hours during the day. Around 9pm, he'll eat a big meal, fall asleep, and sleep until about 2am. Then he's back on the 2-3 hour schedule. For now, that long stretch between 9:00pm-2:00am is all I need to feel refreshed, so I'm grateful for that.

Happy dada!

Selfie with papa

Ready to meet the Keintz family

Best buds

This is how Owen feels about running errands with me

Her first bike ride

She wanted a turn after Owen was done swinging. I'm pretty sure she's too big, but she made it work.

Selfie with mama. A little less enthusiastic than the selfie with papa.

Out for a chilly stroll

Say cheese!

Such a big boy

Out for brunch. Make yourself comfortable, Laney.

Front yard picnic with Noni

  

14 Months Old // 1 Month Old

Changing Laney's diaper has finally become much easier. She doesn't kick, fight, or throw a tantrum on the changing table anymore. Instead, she calmly pages through one of her cardboard books and sings or talks to herself while she's being changed. I'm not sure what caused her to calm down and relax - maybe she just grew out of a phase? I'm a little relieved. It was becoming very challenging because she's a very strong little girl, and when she arches her back and kicks her legs around, it's can be difficult just attaching the clean diaper.

When she's playing or exploring, Delaney sometimes becomes very frustrated if we disrupt what she's doing. If we pull her away while she was trying crawl on top of her jumperoo, or if we pick her up to change her stinky diaper while she was in the middle of playing with her Fisher Price house, she gets very upset and has figured out one very interesting way to show it: head butting. She doesn't have another way to express her feelings yet, so if we pick her up and she gets upset, we've learned not to let her head get too close to our head/face. We've come up with a consistent response to her behavior, and we're hoping it works quickly. Right now, we're sternly saying "no head butting!" and making sure she understands that behavior is unacceptable…then we try to comfort her to let her know we understand that she's upset. She hasn't bitten me recently, but she has bitten Brad a few times in the past few weeks. We're working on that, too. She's a very strong-willed little lady!

So far, Laney has been a very sweet big sister and hasn't shown any signs of jealousy over Owen. She's interested in him, but she's more interested in her own toys and adventures. When I'm nursing him, she tries to crawl onto my lap (sometimes she tries to sit on Owen but doesn't realize she could hurt him). She snuggles with me and smiles at him, and then she tries to poke at his face. She usually tries poking his eyes or sticking her fingers in his mouth (I never let her get that close). She is enamored with him, and I wonder if she thinks he's a tiny living and moving doll. After a minute or two, her curiosity wanes and she climbs down to play with her toys again.

Trying to climb up on me as I was nursing Owen

Owen just showed us his first smile! Aunt Elizabeth, Uncle Danny, and James were visiting, and I was holding Owen in front of Aunt Elizabeth. She was smiling and making exaggerated facial expressions for him, and the corners of his mouth slowly turned upward. It was incredible! We've seen him smile in his sleep before, but this was his first, real, intentional smile. We were at the cabin the following weekend, and Brad was holding Owen as I was changing Laney's morning diaper. Owen started smiling at Brad with a huge grin and wouldn't stop! It was such an amazing moment.

Left: baby Delaney…Right: baby Owen

One of Owen's first smiles. I wasn't quick enough with my camera to get it in focus.

Ready to climb onto her exersaucer at the cabin.

Relaxing outside with Owen

 Laney had a tough time waking from her nap

Much happier!

She figured out how to unlock the iPhone & swipe through pictures. Quite proud of herself!

Papa got some big smiles from Owen!

(exhausted) Mama taking Owen for his first boat ride.

Nap time for the boys